Have you ever given others a chance to correct their mistakes? Have you ever given others more than one chance to correct the mistake they have been making all over again? We all want to believe that one day things are going to change. We say that we can’t leave this all behind, and we can work things out. But at this moment you forget one simple thing: what happened once may never happen again, but what happened twice will repeat the third time, and there is no doubt. Everyone makes mistakes and learn from them. We all are not perfect at our own way. But always remember: if a person repeats the same mistake all over again, this is his or her conscious decision.
Yes, people can change. We try to become better version of ourselves, we do our best to grow, learn and succeed in this life. However, some things we can’t change in ourselves because they are in our bones, they make us exactly who we are. Whether we were we born like this or it came along one day – but there is something that we simply can’t fix and get rid of. And if we can’t do that, how others are supposed to do that for us?
Sometimes things simply do not work out. Certain people, whether they were your friends or lovers, had their special missions in your life. And when those missions were over, they left you or you left them. Your learned something new, experienced something new, and then, sometimes unexpectedly, time to move on came. And this is life – people come and go, and only special ones stay by your side like your family, best friends or this significant other with whom everything feels so right and simple.
You should note to yourself: nobody is worth stressing over. There are so many difficulties and sorrows in this world, so don’t add any more stress into your life. There will always be a reason why you meet people. Either you need to change your life or you are the one to change theirs. But if something doesn’t make you better, make you happy or make you money, you should not have time for it. Life is too short to do what doesn’t feel like a right thing to do.
Don’t be afraid to stay away from people who can’t take responsibility for their own actions and who make you feel bad for being angry at them when they do you wrong again and again. Don’t overthink too much. Just surround yourself with people who make you happy and do the things that bring you joy! Staying in the comfort zone because you’re simply afraid to take a step forward is never a good option.
Love yourself and live this life to the fullest!